Just a matter of time....

Lot of times you would find yourself stuck at one point.... It is natural for anyone to feel like this. When you start feeling stuck or bored, the only thing you can do about this is to take your time and enjoy whatever you do at that point in time. It is at this point in time you should be highly optimistic, as the saying goes "Whatever happens, happens for good". I would rather say happens for the best. The reason I say best is because the situation you are in is because of your actions and when things workout you will always feel better/best. All it takes for anyone to get into better/best situation is to have a little more patience. Patience is virtue.

After a break......

Quotes I like

" Listen to your elder's advice - not becauase they are always RIGHT,
but because they have more experiences of being wrong...."

What is LOVE

Man to God - What is love?
God - Go to the garden and get the most beautiful flower....

Man returned empty handed,
he told God that he found the most beautiful flower but kept walking in gope of a better one. And then he realised the he had ignored the best one. Then he went back but could not find it there.

God replied - This is love, You don't value it when you have it, but repent when you lose it......


Back to my favourites

Zakham jab mere seeney mein bhar jayenge,
Ansu bhi moti bankar bikhar jayenge.
Yeh mat puchna kis kis ne dokha diya,
Varna kuch apno kebhi chehre utar jayenge.....

Doston ki galiyon mein koi gham na ho,
Hamari yeh dosti kabhi kam na ho,
Bas yehi hai duwa tum hamesha khush raho,
Kya pata yeh sandesh bhejne wala dost kal ho na ho

Faslon se intezar badta hai,
Intezar se pyar badta hai,
Saari zindagi khud ko sazda karo,
Tab ja kar aapke jaisa yaar milta hai....

Phir na simtegi agar dosti bikhar jayegi,
Zindgi zulf nahi jo phirse sawar jayegi,
Jo khushi de tumhe tham lo hath uska,
Zindgi ro ke nahi haske guzar jayegi....

Pal pal tarse the us pal ke liye,
Pal aya bhi to kuch pal ke liye,
Socha tha use zindagi ka ek hasin pal bana lenge,
Par woh pal ruka bhi to bas ek pal ke liye....

Daulat aur shaurat sabke paas hai,
Khusiya aur gham sabke nasib mein hai,
Pyar aur nafrat sabke dil mein hai,
Par khush-nasib hai ham jo aap jaisa dost
sirf hamare paas hai.....

Hum dosti nibhana jante hai,
Zakhm tumhare kitne bhi gehre ho hum dava jante hai,
Hame bhulane ki koshish kabhi na karna,
Hum gala dabana bhi jante hai....

Karz dosti me chukane nahi hote,
Ehsan zindagi me jatane nahi hote,
Bas salamat rahe apni dosti,
Kyonki yeh woh rishte hai joh kabhi purane nahi hote....

Na chupana koi bat dil me ho agar,
Rakhna thoda bharosa tum humpar,
Hum nibhaenge dosti ka rishta is kadar,
Ki bhulane par bhi na bhula paoge hume zindagi bhar....

Aasman ke tare aksar puchte hai humse,
"kya tumhe aaj bhi intezar hai uske aane ka"
Ye dil muskura kar kehta hai ,
"Mujhe to ab tak yakin hi nahi hua uske jane ka.....

To Raju Kaka & Kokila Kaki

Haso Jiyo Muskurao kya pataa Kal ho Na ho!!!


TO ALL WHO KNOW ME

Don't count on tomorrow as it may never be.
When tomorrow starts without me and I'm not there to see; If the sun should rise and find your eyes, All filled with tears for me; I wish so much you wouldn't cry, The way you did today, While thinking of the many things, We didn't get to say. I know how much you love me, As much as I love you, And each time that you think of me, I know you'll miss me too; But when tomorrow starts without me, Please try to understand, That an angel came and called my name, and took me by the hand, And said my place was ready in heaven far above, Live everyday as if it were ur last!

Read on...

When tomorrow starts without me and I'm not there to see, If the sun should rise and find your eyes, All filled with tears for me; I wish so much you wouldn't cry, The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things, We didn't get to say. I know how much you love me, As much as I love you, And each time that you think of me, I know you'll miss me too;

But when tomorrow starts without me, Please try to understand, That an angel came and called my name, and took me by the hand, And said my place was ready in heaven far above, And that I'd have to leave behind all those I dearly love. But as I turned to walk away, A tear fell from my eye. For all my life, I'd always thought, I didn't want to die. I had so much to live for, So much yet to do, It seemed almost impossible, That I was leaving you. The good ones and the bad, I thought of all the love we shared, And all the fun we had. If I could relive yesterday, Just even for a while, I'd say good-bye and maybe see you smile. "

And that I'd have to leave behind all those I dearly love. But as I turned to walk away, A tear fell from my eye, For all my life, I'd always thought, I didn't want to die. I had so much to live for, So much yet to do, It seemed almost impossible, That I was leaving you, The good ones and the bad.

I thought of all the love we shared, And all the fun we had. If I could relive yesterday, Just even for a while, I'd say good-bye and maybe see you smile. But then I fully realized, That this could never be, For emptiness and memories, Would take the place of me. And when I thought of worldly things, I might miss come tomorrow, I thought of you, and when I did, My heart was filled with sorrow. But when I walked through heaven's gates, I felt so much at home. When God looked down and smiled at me, from His Great Golden Throne, He said "This is eternity, And all I've promised you." Today for life on earth is past, But here it starts a new. I promise no tomorrow, But today will always last,

But then I fully realized, That this could never be,
For emptiness and memories, Would take the place of me.
And when I thought of worldly things, I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did, My heart was filled with sorrow.
But when I walked through heaven's gates, I felt so much at home.

When God looked down and smiled at me, from His Great Golden Throne,
He said "This is eternity, And all I've promised you."

Today for life on earth is past, But here it starts a new. I promise no tomorrow, But today will always last, And since each day's the same way There's no longing for the past. But you have been so faithful, So trusting and so true. Though there were times you did some things, You knew you shouldn't do. But you have been forgiven And now at last you're free. So, won't you take my hand And share my life with me? So when tomorrow starts without me, Don't think we're far apart, For every time you think of me, I'm right here, in your heart.

I assume this is what Jiten would have felt when he left us and went to Heaven four years ago" - Raju Kaka

Continuation

Shaher ki is daud mein daud ke karne kya hai?

Jab yehi jeena hai doston to phir marna kya hai?

108 hai channel phir bhi dil bahelte kyun nahi?

Mobile, landline sab ki bharmaar hai, lekin jigri doston

tak pahunche aise taar kahan hai

To DOSTON

Shaher ki is daud mein daud ke karne kya hai?
Jab yehi jeena hai doston to phir marna kya hai?

Na mile kisi ka saath toh humein yaar karna,

Tanhai mein mehsus humein karna,

Khushiyan batne ko tum dost hazaar rakhna,
Gham batna ho toh humein yaad rakhna....

Khubiyan itni toh nahi hum mein ki,

Kisi ke dil mein ghar kar jayenge,

Par bhulaana bhi asaan naa hoga,

Jiske hum ekbar dost ban jayenge......

Dil ke bazaar mein daulat nahi dekhi jati,

Pyaar ho jaye toh haisiyath nahi dekhi jati,

Ek hi dil par luta dosab kuch,

Mil jaye hum safar toh kimat nahi dekhi jati......

Mulaqaat maut ki mehmaan ho gayi,

Nazar ki duniya veeraan ho gayi,

Ab toh meri saans bhi ne rahi,

Yeh zindagi aapki dosti par qurban ho gayi......

Itna aitbar toh apni saanson par na tha,

Jitna apki baaton par karte hain,

Itna intezar toh apni dhadkano ka na kiya,

Jitna apke sandes ka karte hain.....

Bin dekhe tasveer bana sakte hain,

Bin mile tera haal bata sakte hain,

Hamare dosti mein itna dum hai ki

tere aansu apni aankho se gira sakte hain....

Jis din bandh hoegi hamari aankhen,

Uss din kayi ankhon mein aansoon aa jayenge,

Jo kehte hain bahut bolte ho tum,

Wahi log meri awaaz sun-ne ke liye taras jayenge....

Koi ho baat - na dil se lagana,

Agar apna samjho - toh hi batana,

Bhool ho humse - to samjhana,

Samjho jo haq - to jatana

Ki hai jo dosti to dil se nibhana....

Milna bichadna sab uparwale ka khel hain,

Milna bichadna sab uparwale ka khel hain,

Dosti hi ek rishta hai jo - Not for sale hain....

Bedard kuch dost ho gaye hain hamare,

Jo hamara intezaar nahin karte,

Kabhi Humse bahut baat karte te,

Ab yaad to chodo sms bhi nahi karte.....

Raste aise ho jo chalne ko majboor kare,

Maikhane aise ho jo pene ko majboor kare,

Jab maut ka daman thamna chahe koi,

Dost apke jaise ho jo jeene ko majboor kare.....

Yaadon ke is bhawar mein ek pal mera ho,

Phulon ke is chaman mai ek gul mera ho,

Khuda kare ki jab aap yaad karo apno ko to

un apno mein ek naam mera ho.....

Yaadon mein aapki har baat rahegi,

Zindagi apki dosti se abaad rahegi,

Chahe bhula de zamane ko hum,

Apki yeh pyari si dosti hamesha yaad rahegi....

Guzre huye kal ki yaad aati hai,

Kuch lamhon se aankhen bhar aati hai,

Voh Subah haseen voh shaam nirali doob jati hai,

Jab aap jaise doston ki yaad aati hai.....

Shaam suraj ko dhalna sikhati hai,

Shama parvane ko jalna sikhati hai,

Girne wale ko hoti hai takleef,

Par tokar hi insan ko chalna sikhati hai....

Mere har labzon mein naam hai uska,

Mere har ek dil ke kone mein basera hai uska,

Meri har ek khayalon mein khayal hai uska....

Friendship / Love

* Hasi ke raste pe chala karo,

Khusiyon ki mahek liya karo,

Pyar se dilon ko chua karo,

Jahan tumhe gham nazar aaye,

Is Dost ko aur JITEN ko yaad kiya karo.....

*One of the best Shayari messages I received from Raju Kaka

Na kabhi muskurahat tere honton se dur ho,

Teri har khwaish hakikat ko manzur ho,

Ho jaye jo tu mujhse khafa,

Khuda na kare mujhse kabhi aisa kasoor ho.....

Tum kya jano kya hoti hain TANHAI,

Is tute hue patte se puch kya hoti hain JUDAI

Yun bewafai ka ilzam na de dost,

Is waqt se puch ke kis waqt teri yaad na aayi.....

Dil jeet le woh jigar hum bi rakhte hain,

Kathl kar de wo nazar hum bhi rakhte,

Wada hai humara humesha muskurane ka,

Varna ankhon mein samandar hum bhi rakhte hain...

Chand ko bitha kar pehre pe,

Taron ko sopa hai nigrani ka kaam,

Raat ne jaari kia hain ye paigam,

Ek pyara sa sapna ho roz appke naam....

Dost farishta hai, Khushiyan lata hai jo,

Rakhna dyan hamesha, Rutkar jaye na woh,

Mana lena agar, Chale jaye woh rutkar,

Kahin reh na jaye dosti ka rishta tootkar,

Agar yeh dosti toot jayegi toh,

Zindagi bhar Uski yaad aayegi,

Sath gujre lamhon se, Aankh bhar bhar aayegi,

Aasani se milte hain dushman, Dost magar milte nahin,

Murjha jate hain dosti ke phool,

Toh baharon ke aane par bhi khilte nahin.....

Ho poori dil ki har khwaish aapki,

Aur mile khushion ka jahaan aapko,

Agar aap mange aasman ka ek tara,

To khuda de de aapko asman sara.....

Kabhi dil mein muskura kar dekhiye,

Hamari yaadein gunguna kar dekhiye,

Hum bhul jayenge aapko ek shart par,

Pehle aap humein bhula kar toh dekhiye....

Yaadon ke sahare dunia nahi chalti,

Bina mile kabhi mehfil nahi banti,

Ek baar dil se pukaro toh dost,

Doston ki chahat ke bina yeh dhadkan bhi nahi chalti.....

Woh kahtein hain majbur hain hum,

Na chahte hue bhi door hain hum,

Churali unhone humari dhadkan,

Phir bhi kehtein hain bekasoor hain hum.......

Dil se nikli dua hain hamari,

Zindagi mein mile apko khusiyan saari,

Gham na de khuda aapko kabhi,

Chahe toh ek khushi hamari kam karde......

Life - after?

People come and go........

It is natural that a new life starts for someone and it is natural it is the end for someone. But it is never natural that how the period in between is LIVED. Not just existence, living is what counts in a person’s life. I know of a person who at a very young age new about his end, however he lived his life truly like a WARRIOR. The reason why I say warrior is because that he never gave up till the end, he had the will power to accept the truth. Eventually the inevitable happened. I wish I had met this person, but I guess even If I had met I wouldn’t have understood him. But the inspiration to write about him came from the people who were close to him. I guess it is the absence that teaches you more than the presence; it is the distance that teaches more than the proximity.

For some reason I always feel that I could feel him around me, like a guardian angel taking care of me (personally). I guess that is because I am close to those people who were and who are close to him as well. I don’t know what happens after I die, but if I could I really would want to meet this lovely soul that touched lots of people’s life. All I ask from God is to mould my character, thoughts and actions like his may be a percentage.

Wondering who is this true warrior!!!!!